10 Ultimate Posing Tips for Wedding Photos
One of the most important things to remember about a wedding photo session is that many people tend to overthink it.
And yes, I know it can be nerve-wracking. People often choose wedding photographers based on perfectly posed wedding photos, but they’re really worried about how they’ll feel in front of a professional camera.
So, let’s dig into the details. I can’t show you in writing how I lead a wedding shoot, but trust me, within the first three minutes, all my clients turn into supermodels! :)
We often see stunning Bridal photoshoots taken at breathtaking locations—sunsets, cliffs, or a veil dramatically flying in the wind. While we love to showcase these wedding photos online, they only represent a small fraction of the wedding day.
For us as wedding photographers, these moments are brief and make just a few shots out of the hundreds we capture during a typical 12-hour wedding coverage.
From my experience designing printed wedding albums, I’ve noticed that only a few dramatic shots from wedding photo sessions make it into the final selection.
Instead, couples tend to cherish the candid, unposed photos—the kiss with Dad when he first sees the bride in her dress, the joy of walking out of the church, and those genuine tears, emotional moments that are beautifully natural.
Prioritize the Experience Over a Spotless Wedding Dress: Create Unforgettable Memories.
We live in Ireland, where the weather can be unpredictable. If your top priority is keeping your wedding dress spotless, you may limit the poses and moments captured in your photos and video during a Bridal Photoshoot.
Ask yourself: Do you want a pristine dress in your wardrobe or stunning wedding photos and an unforgettable experience? In the past, I’ve seen brides so worried about a little dirt on their wedding dress that they didn’t fully enjoy the Bridal Photoshoot.
Be aware—it’s your day to create memories, not just to keep a dress clean.
A Real Wedding Story
I once had a groom who was anxious about the photos—he brought it up a few times in our emails before the wedding. But after the big day, he left such a heartwarming review, saying that the Bridal Photoshoot was his favourite part of the day. It gave him and his bride a chance to steal some quiet moments together, away from all the hustle and bustle of the guests.
I was absolutely thrilled to hear that!
But let’s get back to the tips on posing and how to ace your wedding photoshoot.
Tips for Couples to Relax and Look Natural During Their Photo Session
- Tip for Grooms and Groomsman: Keep Pockets Empty
Avoid carrying bulky items like phones or keys in your pants pockets on your wedding day. Store them in your jacket pocket or give them to someone for safekeeping. This will keep your suit looking sleek and well-fitted in photos. - Choose an Experienced Wedding Photographer
Experience is invaluable. Seasoned wedding photographers know how to capture stunning photos quickly and efficiently, allowing you to enjoy more of your day without feeling like you’re stuck in front of the camera. While experienced wedding photographers may cost more, consider it an investment in your peace of mind and the quality of your memories. - Communicate with Your Photographer About Rain and Wedding Plans
Open communication with your photographer is key. Discuss your expectations, ask questions, and consider any challenges your venue might present, such as rain or wind. Always have a Plan A for outdoor photos, but be prepared with a Plan B for indoor shots if the weather doesn’t cooperate. Venues like Ballymagarvey Village, Tankardstown House, and Rathsallagh House offer great indoor options for rainy days. Keep wellies and umbrellas on hand for fun, rainy-day photos if you’re adventurous! – PERFECT PLAN B :) - Don’t Overthink the Photoshoot
Remember, the posed photos of the bride and groom are just a tiny part of your day. Most of your wedding photographer’s time will be spent capturing candid moments of you, your family, and your friends enjoying the celebration. So, don’t stress—the Bridal Photoshoot will be quick and painless! - Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
Instead of worrying about the camera, focus on your future wife or husband during the wedding photo session. Those natural, candid moments between the two of you always look the best in wedding photos. - Trust Your Wedding Photographer, But Share Your Preferences
Let your wedding photographer guide you—they know how to capture your best angles. However, don’t hesitate to provide input if you have a preferred side or specific angles you like. A good wedding photographer will appreciate your feedback and work with you to ensure you’re happy with the results. It’s a collaboration, so feel free to communicate your preferences. - Wear Comfortable Clothing and Wedding Shoes!
Choose outfits that fit well and make you feel confident. Avoid tight or restrictive wedding dress, as it can make you self-conscious. Coordinating with your partner’s outfit can also create a cohesive look in your photos. Some great tips by NOVA BRIDAL STUDIO Learn more: https://www.dkphoto.ie/bride-guide/11-tips-brides-guide-selecting-wedding-dress/ - Be Yourself in Front of the Camera
The secret to looking your best? Just be yourself. Trying to mimic poses from wedding magazines might feel unnatural. Relax, be in the moment, and trust your photographer to guide you. - Embrace and Love Yourself
In a world filled with perfect Instagram photos and images of professional models from paid shoots, it’s important to remember that these don’t always reflect real life. As a wedding photographer, I often get requests from clients aiming for an unrealistic standard. Instead, accept and love yourself as you are. Your wedding photos should capture the real, beautiful you—not a filtered version. Celebrate your uniqueness and embrace the reality of your special day. LOVE YOURSELF! - Keep It Simple with Photo Ideas and Locations
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself by creating an endless list of photo ideas and locations. This can lead to unnecessary stress, especially since your wedding day flies by quickly. If you want to enjoy time with your family and friends, stick to just one meaningful location for your photos. This allows you to capture beautiful moments without feeling rushed or overwhelmed.
Additional Tips for a Relaxed and Natural Look
- Stay Hydrated and Eat Well: To keep your energy up, drink plenty of water and have a light meal before your photoshoot.
- Get a Good Night’s Sleep: Being well-rested will help you feel more energetic and less stressed.
- Be Cautious with Fake Tan Be very careful with fake tan before your wedding. In most cases, it can be challenging to correct photos if it looks uneven or too dark. Opt for a natural glow, and if you do use a tan, test it well in advance to ensure it looks perfect.
- Relax Your Hands: Don’t let your hands hang stiffly by your sides. Hold your partner’s hand, gently touch your bouquet, or rest a hand on your hip to keep them looking natural. Avoid twisting your arms into unnatural poses like those you might see in bridal magazines—these can look awkward and uncomfortable in photos. Keep your movements fluid and relaxed for the most flattering results.
- Be Mindful of Your Posture: Good posture makes a big difference. Stand tall, keep your shoulders back, and avoid slouching.
- Incorporate Movement: Instead of holding stiff poses, interact with your partner. Walk hand in hand, dance, or play around—movement creates dynamic and natural photos. Don’t be afraid to walk, twirl, or dance a little. Movement creates dynamic and lively photos, making the moments feel more real and spontaneous.
- Focus on Your Love Story: Think about the journey you’ve taken together and let those emotions shine through in your photos.
Conclusion
With a bit of preparation and the right mindset, you can feel comfortable and look natural in front of the camera on your wedding day. By choosing the right wedding photographer, practising, be practising and focusing on each other, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy the experience. Remember, your wedding day is a celebration of your love, and your photos should reflect the genuine joy and happiness you share.
For more tips and insights on planning your wedding, explore more articles on my blog.
Enjoy your wedding planning! Daniel
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